idk that I can teach u to get out of touch w ur feelings man it's mostly just have a good time in the moment ur in and dont bother getting back in touch
I don't want to get out of touch with them I just want to not fall into them when it's a terrible idea.
I never did casual, and I thought being slutty was being casual but now I'm worried it just means ending up with too many feelings for too many people and being doomed. Teach me Obi-Wan Tommy, you're my only hope.
ok first thing if I'm anyone I'm the Han Solo of this story and ur Luke Skywalker trying to get laid or something
but ok fine look sometimes u need to just take those feelings and put them in a closet somewhere and lock the door and dont come back to that door bc they might still be there but if u ignore them they don't matter and aren't real and if u really can't ignore it, move on say adios never hook up w that person again and diversify ur portfolio or whatever
also dont fall for every person u hook up with? theyre not all worth it i promise some people are just good for hook ups its not that deep
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Yeah p much
way easier to just hook up and not get involved in the messy feelings part
why?
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Yeah. That's why I'm asking.
How do you do that? Just not get feelings for people you sleep with?
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it's mostly just have a good time in the moment ur in and dont bother getting back in touch
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I never did casual, and I thought being slutty was being casual but now I'm worried it just means ending up with too many feelings for too many people and being doomed. Teach me Obi-Wan Tommy, you're my only hope.
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and ur Luke Skywalker trying to get laid or something
but ok fine
look sometimes u need to just take those feelings and put them in a closet somewhere and lock the door
and dont come back to that door bc they might still be there but if u ignore them they don't matter and aren't real
and if u really can't ignore it, move on
say adios never hook up w that person again and diversify ur portfolio or whatever
also dont fall for every person u hook up with? theyre not all worth it i promise
some people are just good for hook ups its not that deep